How to Actively Listen

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The subject I want to talk about is how to actively listen to someone. When you’re engaged with someone, you have to give your full attention to them and ignore anything else that is a distraction. It’s important to actively listen to someone to show your respect to that person. I want to give you 4 steps to help you be an active listener.

There are four steps to actively listen to someone:

The first step in actively listening is to prepare yourself mentally. That means all current thoughts must be gone in order to be ready for the information that you’re about to take in.

The second step is to pay attention. Don’t allow any distractions to get in the way of you and the person talking. Active listening requires your full attention. Here at SEEDs we are learning about actively listening to someone when they’re talking. We learn that you have to ask questions to clarify any information you don’t understand. Also use small nods and positive gestures like, “I got you” or “I see”, that can boost the speaker’s confidence that you are paying attention. Don’t fidget or fiddle around because it can distract the speaker, shows you’re not listening and not respecting that person.

Step three is to allow that person to speak without interruption until they’re finished. Actively listening is critical to people who are in a conversation together. You give and take information that needs to be said and also what is important to either you or that person.

The last step is to give that person feedback and allow time to pass while you think about what you’re going to say to them. It’s necessary give feedback to the other person if they either say your name or nod for your input.

Actively listening is a key part in having a conversation with someone. It shows you want to listen to that person even when there are other people talking outside of your conversation. I hope you have learned a lesson on how to actively listen to someone.

-Megan

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